I have a friend. She lives around the corner from me. We've only known each other three years or so. But if I had been lucky enough to have a sister, this is the sister I would have chosen. She is wise, funny, self confident, logical, grounded, honest and, the opposite of me, calm. I admire this woman and would walk a very long way for her. I cherish her friendship and if, as planned, she moves half way across the country this spring to take accept her dream job, I will smile with tears in my eyes because she deserves this opportunity.
My friend has two young children, a four year old son and and a five month old daughter. Her little boy has had struggles of late with immunity issues. He has missed a good portion of this school year with one cold, strep throat, flu, you name it, after the next. The medical doctors are treating the symptoms and he recovers from each illness only to greet the next.
Its not a stretch to think it may be time to check a different avenue. So, being familiar with my son's story, his allergy testing at age four and the positive results of his diet change, my friend wonders if her son might benefit from the same testing or at least a visit to the Naturopath who helped us. My friend's challenge, and the inspiration for this post, is her husband's hesitation to consult a Naturopathic Doctor.
Actually that last sentence should read, consult a Naturopathic Doctor again, because their little boy has already had an appointment with Robin and benefited from her advice.
Why would a smart, well educated, loving father not want his child to see a Doctor who focuses on what causes illness and finding natural ways to prevent it? There is nothing frightening in what Robin does and her results speak for themselves. She has a stellar reputation. With the exception of a few common supplements like probiotics, her recommendations for my son were strictly dietary.
I could make a joke about not wanting to do the work if it turns out the little guy does have food allergies. But I know that is not the case. Both my friend and her husband would do whatever it took to help their son.
My guess is that the hesitation here is bigger and that it represents the commonly held viewpoint that there is only one 'real' type of doctor and that anyone else is a pretender.
Fascinating. No one knows everything. That is impossible. So why not listen to what someone with different expertise has to say? It's about gathering information and then making your best, most well informed decision. We all do it daily.
Take, for instance, Adam, who wants to build a new house. Adam does not stop at calling the architect. He also consults a contractor, many sub trades and finally, a decorator. If Rosanne was going to a launch a business, she would call a long list of professionals starting with a banker and finishing with a marketing specialist.
Why then do so many of us believe that only doctors trained in traditional schools of western medicine know anything about the body and how to heal it?
I have great respect for medical doctors and would not want to be without them. But I also value the wisdom and approach of the naturopathic stream of medicine with its positive focus on preventing illness through the use of foods and other lifestyle options.
I am grateful to have these options and look forward to the time when more of us will start to recognize the value in so called 'alternative' opinions and take advantage of the wealth of expertise that surrounds us.